What every diva should know
Here are three things every diva should know
Leave the attitude at home: A true diva doesn’t have to be mean or abrasive. She gets respect because she’s earned it.
Look the part: You don’t have to have “Oprah money” to be divalicious. Remember that confidence is a better accessory than the most expensive diamond.
Own your talents: In the musical world, a diva is a talented opera singer. Keep your talents in mind when you strut your diva stuff. Recognize your strengths, creativity and uniqueness.
When most folks hear the word “diva” uttered, it isn’t the image of a talented female opera singer that comes to mind.
An image closer to that of a spoiled brat or a “Real Housewife” more often prevails.
Dawn Martin, owner of Dayton-based Diva by Design Ministries, said it shouldn’t be that way.
To Martin, a real diva is a woman connected to her inner and outer beauty and determined to make a positive mark on the world.
“A lot of people, when they think of diva, they are thinking of ‘the attitude.’ When they call you a diva they are not meaning it in a positive way,” said the author of the recently released self-published book “Fill My Cup: Transitioning to Your Purpose” ($11 at Amazon.com).
“A diva is a woman who has embraced her divine purpose. ... She’s strong. She’s empathetic. She’s able to motivate,” says Martin.
Martin, who teaches etiquette and encourages personal development through mind, body and spirit healing, said being a diva has absolutely nothing to do with bank account balances or putting on airs.
“She may show up in a Chanel suit and some alligator slippers or she may show up in a jogging suit,” Martin said. “It doesn’t matter.”
Martin is planning a women’s mentorship conference this summer.
Phetheria Woodson-Zackary, who has operated New Attitude Boutique on Salem Avenue for 20 years and started the fashion troupe PW Productions 30 years ago, said divas come in all shapes and sizes.
She added that when it comes to being a diva, age is only a number. Woodson-Zackary pointed to Mary Voedich, who still models in three-inch heels at age 93.
“(A diva’s) goal isn’t everyone else’s goal,” Woodson-Zackary said. “You have to portray that confidence.”
CONTACT this reporter at (937) 225-2384 or arobinson@coxohio.com.
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