Grieving mother: Deputy Yates’ death like losing another son

Victoria Arnold holds up a picture on her phone of her late son Titus' childhood friends who she refers to as the "Fab 9." That includes Deputy Matthew Yates, who was killed in the line of duty on Sunday. Arnold has known Yates since he was 7-years-old. Hasan Karim/Staff

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Victoria Arnold holds up a picture on her phone of her late son Titus' childhood friends who she refers to as the "Fab 9." That includes Deputy Matthew Yates, who was killed in the line of duty on Sunday. Arnold has known Yates since he was 7-years-old. Hasan Karim/Staff

The recent shooting death of Clark County Sheriff Deputy Matthew Yates has been felt throughout the community as many remember him as a man with a kind heart.

But, for one grieving mother, Yates’ death represents the loss of yet another son. Victoria Arnold had known Yates since he was 7. He had been her son’s best friend and part of a group of young men who considered themselves brothers.

When Arnold lost her son Titus in 2005, Yates was one of the pallbearers at the funeral. The loss had a tremendous impact on the future deputy as he kept in touch with the grieving mother over the years.

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Two women console each other as the procession with Deputy Matthew Yates' body drives past Monday in downtown Springfield. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Two women console each other as the procession with Deputy Matthew Yates' body drives past Monday in downtown Springfield. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Two women console each other as the procession with Deputy Matthew Yates' body drives past Monday in downtown Springfield. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Titus and Matt had grown up with each other. They were part of a friend group that Titus’ mother fondly remembered as the “Fab 9,” even though there were 10 of them altogether. All had spent countless hours at Titus’ childhood home in Springfield. They all met while playing pee-wee football and kept a brotherly bond all the way into adulthood.

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“They didn’t call themselves friends, they called themselves brothers. They protected each other. They looked out for each other. They did everything together from that age all the way through high school,” Arnold recalled.

Yates, 41, was killed in the line of duty on Sunday following a shooting at a mobile home park in Harmony Twp. outside Springfield.

Yates was remembered as the level-headed one of the group who was always laughing. Those traits followed him as he became a deputy, got married and raised three children. As Yates grew up, he always checked on his childhood friends, family and neighbors.

“Matt was the brother that was like ‘okay, let’s think this through first before we do that,” Arnold warmly recalled, noting that is how Yates always was even years into adulthood.

When tragedy struck in 2005, it had a lasting impact on Yates who would later go on to serve 15 years as a Clark County Sheriff’s deputy, said Arnold.

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Loretta Martin looks over the messages written on a flag displayed next to a Clark County Sheriff's vehicle covered in flowers on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Tuesday, July 26, 2022. The vehicle is a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates, who was killed Sunday on a call at Harmony Estates. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Loretta Martin looks over the messages written on a flag displayed next to a Clark County Sheriff's vehicle covered in flowers on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Tuesday, July 26, 2022. The vehicle is a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates, who was killed Sunday on a call at Harmony Estates. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Loretta Martin looks over the messages written on a flag displayed next to a Clark County Sheriff's vehicle covered in flowers on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Tuesday, July 26, 2022. The vehicle is a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates, who was killed Sunday on a call at Harmony Estates. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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The Clark County Sheriff's vehicle that was set up as a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates is reflected in a rain puddle on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Thursday, July 28, 2022. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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The Clark County Sheriff's vehicle that was set up as a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates is reflected in a rain puddle on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Thursday, July 28, 2022. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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The Clark County Sheriff's vehicle that was set up as a memorial for Deputy Matthew Yates is reflected in a rain puddle on the Springfield City Hall Plaza Thursday, July 28, 2022. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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Yates’ best friend Titus Arnold was killed at the age of 23 as he was leaving his job at a home for at-risk youth. As the news came, the rest of the friend group rallied together to help each other through that loss. Not only did they look after each other, but they provided crucial support to Arnold, who remembers being lost following her son’s senseless killing.

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“I know Titus’ death played a big part in Matt’s life and it affected Matt a lot,” said Arnold, who was told by Yates’ fellow deputies that he used to talk about Titus a lot.

Titus, who worked with the juvenile court system, was about to head home to his daughter when two men randomly targeted him. They pulled a gun and shot and killed Titus. It was the culmination of a four-day crime spree committed by the two men that included three shootings.

“If it had not been for the ‘Fab 9,’ I would not have survived Titus’ murder. They were there for me from the beginning. They are still there for me now, though five of them are now angels,” Victoria Arnold said, referring to Titus’ friends as her sons.

Three of the “Fab 9″ have died from random causes, including health related, and all died too soon, Arnold said.

Yates joined the sheriff’s office, choosing to follow in his father Eugene’s footsteps, who had been a longtime deputy before retiring from the Clark County Sheriff’s Office. In addition to that, Yates joined his friends in choosing career and life paths that allowed them to help others, Arnold said.

Yates death continues to hit those that knew him well. He leaves behind a wife, Tracy, two sons, Anthony and Andrew Reed, and a daughter A’Kaylehana Yates.

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Deputy Matthew Yates checks out one of the posters explaining Islamic values and culture during Springfield's Islamic Day of Ohio event in October 2019. Yates was a recipient of the community heroes awards given that evening. Photo by Brett Turner

Deputy Matthew Yates checks out one of the posters explaining Islamic values and culture during Springfield's Islamic Day of Ohio event in October 2019. Yates was a recipient of the community heroes awards given that evening. Photo by Brett Turner

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Deputy Matthew Yates checks out one of the posters explaining Islamic values and culture during Springfield's Islamic Day of Ohio event in October 2019. Yates was a recipient of the community heroes awards given that evening. Photo by Brett Turner

“Matt loved (Tracy) with all his heart. That baby girl (his daughter) was the apple of his eye. His sons, Matt never called them his stepsons, those were his sons. Matt loved hard. He was proud of his family and what he accomplished as a deputy,” Arnold said.

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Yates’ death brought Arnold back to the day when her son Titus was killed. Arnold and Yates had supported each other emotionally during that time and continued to keep in touch throughout the years. She had loved Yates like a son and had even talked to him the Friday before his death.

In the years following her son Titus’ death, Arnold decided to become a victim’s advocate for the Clark County Prosecutor’s Office. She left her job at Central State to take on that role in 2019.

The days following Yates’ death has served as a reminder of how important that work truly is for her.

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