OK to parade son around in a tutu?

We posted on our Facebook page a story about a woman in Rock Hill, South Carolina, who is being investigated by the Department of Social Services.

Police there say the mother was parading her son around in a Walmart store. She had dressed him in a tutu, women’s boots and underclothes, and a T-shirt. His head was shaved, and on the back of it she had written “bad.”

She told the authorities she was punishing her son “for fighting and making homophobic remarks.”

We’ve read news stories before about judges sentencing defendants in non-traditional ways. Last year, for example, a South Euclid, Ohio, municipal judge sentenced a man to wear a sign in public that said, “I AM A BULLY! I pick on children that are disabled, and I am intolerant of those that are different from myself. My actions do not reflection an appreciation for the diverse South Euclid community that I live in.”

Are the actions of the South Carolina parent creative punishment, child abuse or something in the middle?

Our online readers are responding to this news story. Here is a sampling of their comments. What do you think? Please “like” our Facebook page to comment on this news story as well as many others. — Connie Post

  • That mother was wrong, she has no idea how much she embarrassed that child. — SHIRLEY WILLIAMS
  • She's basically teaching her son that it's somehow degrading to be a woman. Would she make a daughter parade around in pants? Not good. — STEPHEN CHARLES LONG II
  • Since when is it anyone's place to tell her how to raise her son? Not something I would do, but it's not my child. — ELIZABETH WEAVER
  • That is wrong and humiliating! Shame on her. There are better ways to address the situation. — ANGIE VANHOOSE
  • Nobody's business. That's between the mother and her kid. Society doesn't raise children. — MATTHEW KEY
  • That is straight-up child abuse. — APRIL OAKLEY
  • It's her kid, she can do want she thinks is right. — CHUCK LAM
  • Terrible … does she have no mothering common sense at all. — RITA PIPER- PHILLIPS
  • Very inappropriate. — TRICIA LEMOINE

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