An early referral to hospice care makes a big difference

Timing always has been important for Warren and Dorothy Treece, even more so when they decided to contact Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton for help with her care.

Timing always has been important for Warren and Dorothy Treece, even more so when they decided to contact Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton for help with her care.

In 1961, Warren Treece proposed to his wife, Dorothy, right after she boarded a train in Long Island, New York. Dorothy was heading back to her hometown of Savannah, Georgia, when Warren hopped on the train and asked her to marry him. “She said if I could be in Savannah on January 20, she would marry me,” Warren recalls. “I made it, and we were married on January 20.”

Good timing is still important to Warren, who is now 94 years old. He cares for Dorothy, who suffered a stroke and a fall in 2014 that resulted in brain surgery. Dorothy needs increasing levels of care, and as they looked at the future, the couple decided to ask for a referral for hospice care.

Warren and Dorothy live in an apartment in Friendship Village Retirement Community in Dayton, and both of them want Dorothy to stay there for as long as possible. "Luckily, we're being helped with that by Ohio's Hospice of Dayton," Warren reports.

Dorothy has been receiving hospice care since June. The staff from Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton made sure Dorothy received a hospital-style bed, so she is more comfortable. An aid arrives each day to the couple’s apartment, helping Dorothy get bathed and dressed, and a nurse visits twice a week.

"I'm also glad that healthcare people are so closely monitoring her condition and her abilities," says Warren. He adds that he's very grateful he can call Ohio's Hospice of Dayton any time.

Warren predicts that Dorothy eventually will need care at the Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton in-patient hospice house on Wilmington Pike, where there are 53 patient suites with 24/7 medical attention. “But for now they’re helping me keep her here at Friendship Village,” he says.

"Many people caring for a terminally ill person at home have us 'on standby' in case they can no longer manage," says Ruth Thomson, D.O., chief medical officer for Ohio's Hospice of Dayton. "If that time comes, we can provide a seamless move, without the person needing to first go to a hospital emergency room and wait for a transfer."

Too often, Dr. Thomson says, Ohio’s Hospice of Dayton only has the privilege of caring for patients for seven days or less. “We want people to know that although care in our in-patient hospice house is meant for short term needs, we provide care at home, whether that’s a house, assisted living apartment, or a nursing facility, prior to the time and if in-patient care is needed,” she says.

Warren, who is retired from the U.S. Air Force, shares that he and Dorothy had experience with Ohio's Hospice of Dayton years ago. Their only daughter, Pat, died at age 38 in 2006 after her breast cancer spread to her liver. "Pat is the one who told us to call Hospice," Warren recalls. "What the hospice people were able to do for us helped us through an extremely difficult time. Now they are here again for us."

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